All in Relationships
“There’s a lot of fetching at times about how the world is built for two, and how it holds this one style or this escalator up as a high-status relationship, and everything pales next to it. It’s a highly rigid and conforming way of [experiencing intimacy] that works for many people but doesn’t work for all. “
Yikes! I stumbled upon otter sex off the gulf coast of Florida last month totally high after watching a pod of dolphins swim by as I did yoga on the beach. Makes me muse on what a strange year it’s been to be a sexual being. Identify as Poly. Practice queering the world with pleasure, writing, and love.
Summer writing is a slow, thoughtful, fertile process in midst of pleasuring up my wildness, body, and bigLake to the max. Enjoy below expansive relationship brilliance and let me know what you think. More soon about my newly coined ‘Monogamous Fragility’.
By the time September and October ride in, we can’t contain the sexy effervescence bubbling up from us. We welcome pleasure like pros and have fun doing so. We tell more sex jokes, have second, third, fourth thoughts about what’s deemed “sexually inappropriate”.
The things I value most in the intersection of art, love, activism, and this other-worldy time of year are the trance like places I go.
Four winters and counting in Duluth after escaping from 2012-2014. It’s taken me this long to remember the rhythms of our seasonal year, and place/chart the erotic on my calendar.
It’s the beginning of December and I’ve started to reflect on the year. These past eleven months have been so good to me. I can’t help but wonder if some of the goodness has come from committing to having an orgasm a day last New Years.
Intimacy just happens in summer. In winter, intimacy requires special plans, getaway adventures, great art...
Let’s go back to the drawing board people! This is our hearts we’re talking about, out sex lives, our families of choice!!! There are endless options and examples in our small community about how ethical non monogamy equals creative love design.
